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Family Halloween Compilation 2021 :: FAM-O-WEEN

October 27, 2021 By Deb B. 50 Comments

George and I have never been much into the costume world ourselves, but ever since Smallie, Smallie 2.0 (and the furry smallie siblings that preceded them) came into our lives, we can’t imagine a Halloween without fully immersing ourselves… as a family. Or what has eventually evolved into what we like to call, Fam-o-ween.

Along the way, we’ve managed to up our game, seeing as we have to keep things relatively interesting for the smallest member of the family. And I don’t mean this guy…

Napuglean dynamite www.sassandsmalls.comOr this guy…

Camo Pug - FAM-O-WEEN brought to you by, babyStylista :: Family Costumes www.SassAndSmalls.comOr these two guys…

Princess Pom Leia and Darth Pug Vader - FAM-O-WEEN brought to you by, babyStylista :: Family Costumes www.SassAndSmalls.comIt was by the influence of a wee little black swan bearing a striking resemblance to Awww-Drey Hepburn, that came into this world and forever changed the face of Halloween as far as our little family was concerned. And her name is Smallie.

 

It took his mini-version to plead with her otherwise skeptical and ever-so resistant Daddy, to get into the Halloween spirit as a family. Of course, the hubs has one stipulation for agreeing to support this absurd annual tradition of ours (although I’m working on his willingness to be flexible for the sake of the incredibly persistent women in his life) – to dress up as a respectable, somewhat stylish (I believe his exact words were… “You better not make me look tacky”), human character. So I guess, an emoji, fruit of the loom grapes, a bright red lego piece, or a gigantic cabbage patch doll with yarn for hair, is pretty much out of the question. Boo.

8 years later Smallie 2.0, entered the scene. With Little Mama‘s insane DIY skills and highly influenced ways of Super Monsters and all things Cleopatra, Mini Cleo and Mini Tut took Halloween by storm. (Get the deets here on how we encourage our littles to create their own costumes, cuz I’m not about to add another thing to my list – let’s not be talking crazy, now…)

DIY Kids Cleopatra and King Tut Halloween Costumes www.sassandsmalls.comAllow me to take you down memory lane as we revisit Fam-o-ween (s) of yore:

“Cops, Robbers, & A Small(ie) Moneybag” – Fam-O-Ween, 2011 (Click here to get the deets)

Halloween 2011 - Cops and Robbers Fam-o-ween 2017“Peanuts! Popcorn! Hot Dog!!” – Fam-O-Ween, 2012 <as featured on The Huffington Post> (Click here to get the deets)

Halloween 2011 - Popcorn! Peanuts! Hotdogs! Fam-o-ween 2017“Hollywood Starlets” – Fam-O-Ween, 2013  (Click here to get the deets)

Halloween 2013 - Hollywood Starlets Fam-o-ween 2017“Orange Is The New Black – an Original Fam-O-Ween Series” – Fam-O-Ween, 2014 (Click here to get the deets)

Halloween 2014 - Orange is the New Black Fam-o-ween 2017Of course, Smallie got her own feature as Crazy Eyes, toddler version…

Halloween 2014 - Orange is the New Black Crazy Toddler Fam-o-ween 2017“The Mini Green Hornet” – Fam-O-Ween, 2015 (Click here to get the deets)

Halloween 2015 - The Green Hornet Fam-o-ween 2017“Mary Poppins” – Fam-O-Ween, 2016 (Click here to get the deets)

Halloween 2016 - Mary Poppins Fam-o-ween 2017Apparently, her nanny service reviews were off the charts and out of this world…

Halloween 2016 - Mary Poppins A Spoonful of Sugar Fam-o-ween 2017“The Beatles” – Fam-O-Ween, 2017 (Click here to get the deets)

The Balinos aka The Beatles Fam-o-ween Album Collection www.sassandsmalls.comOf course you can’t pretend you’re The Beatles without actually walking in their shoes, can you?

The Balinos aka The Beatles Famoween Road www.sassandsmalls.comOR coming out with our own album…

The Balinos aka The Beatles Fam-o-ween Album Collection www.sassandsmalls.comBut where things started to get really crazy, was in 2018, when our tiniest and newest Smallie – our little man entered the picture (quite literally)…

“Vegas, Baby!” – Fam-O-Ween, 2018 (Click here to get the deets)

Vegas, Baby Famoween 2018 Cher www.sassandsmalls.comTruth is, with Mr. All Shook up over here – he Ain’t Nuthin, but a Hound Dog, Cryin’ all the Time (no joke, our  Instastories captured the very loud and raw footage behind the scenes). Probably because it was more mom’s way, than My Way. A Little Less Conversation and a little more Heartbreak Hotel, as far as he was concerned. I’m surprised he didn’t start wailing Jailhouse Rock cuz we all know this was baby imprisonment at its finest.

Okay. I’ll stop. 

Vegas, Baby Famoween 2018 Cher www.sassandsmalls.comMaybe next year, the poor little man of ours will feel less overwhelm, cry less tears, and have more Love Me Tender moments (okay, last one). At some point he’s going to have to surrender like his big sis has, with such grace may I add, and realize – this is the family he chose. 

Sigh. Life as a Balino is so hard. So very, very, hard. 

“Peter Pan and the Lost Balinos” – Fam-O-Ween, 2019 (Click here to get the deets)

Peter Pan and The Lost Balinos :: FAM-O-WEEN 2019 www.sassandsmalls.comNow that we’re parents, I can see the thrill of never wanting to grow up, and the creative genius behind such a concept (Hence, G-Darling, and Wend-D Darling…. yes I know – me, and my puns). But like anything in the mystical world of pretend – it’s not always what it’s cracked up to be. This past year in particular, we have embraced all the changes and faced all the challenges arms opened wide with eyes closed shut. But as much as we have learned, in every which way as parents – we are lost. And we’re just finding our way through this chaos called parenthood. 

“The Addams Family AKA The Balino Family” – Fam-O-Ween, 2020 (Click here to get the deets)

The Addams Family FAM-O-WEEN with The Balinos www.sassandsmalls.com2020. Need I say more?
Last year, we decided to take the time to embrace the weirdness that 2020 left us, and go figure… we ended up discovering our true selves. 
… creepy and kooky.

… mysterious and spooky.

… We’re altogether ooky.

We’re The “BALINO” Family! Quarantine-version…

 

Can’t wait to come up with… err… show you what ideas we have brewing for 2021!

Do you get into the Halloween spirit with your little ones?

Boo! From our crew…

Deb B. www.sassandsmalls.com

 

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Filed Under: FAM-O-WEEN Halloween, playing dress up, the everyday, Too Cool for School Tagged With: Audrey Hepburn, Baby, Captain Hook, Cher, chihuhua, Cleopatra, cops and robbers, costume, Crazy Eyes, DIY, dress up, Egyptian, Elizabeth Taylor, Elvis, fam-o-ween, family, Family theme, fashion, fashionista, Gene Kelly, Halloween, Halloween 2020, Hollywood, hotdogs, John Darling, King Tut, Lost Balinos, Lost Boys, Marilyn Monroe, Mini Cleo, Neverland, OITNB, Orange is the New Black, peanuts, Peter Pan, Popcorn, preschooler, pug, Siegfried and Roy, starlets, style, stylish, stylist, Toddler, vegas, Viva Las Vegas, Wendy Darling

About Deb B.

Deb Balino is the voice behind Sass & Smalls, host of the newly launched Podcast - Sass & Small Talk, and a mom of two - an artistic and quirky 11-year-old, and an outspoken, homewrecking, retro music loving, 4-year-old. A décor and style enthusiast, as well as a home systems hack creator, with a mildly concerning obsession of all things "bin-worthy", Deb enjoys sharing products, experiences, progressive ideas, and simple shifts in mindset that has helped her family navigate the beautiful chaos of parenting. Deb is also a homeschool teacher, partially by choice, partially pandemic-inspired, while advocating and caring for her parents as an active member of the Sandwich Generation. With vulnerability, and a dash of humour - she shares the reality of her world, all while keeping things as sassy as they once were before the drool, meltdowns, and potty mishaps entered the picture.

Her creative ideas, lengthy storytelling, and everyday musings have been featured on Huffington Post, Yahoo Style, BBC News, and YMC.CA

Comments

  1. paula schuck says

    October 29, 2014 at 7:51 am

    I love all of these but peanuts, popcorn and hotdogs etc is hysterical !! You all look the parts. Nice job.
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  2. Olivia says

    October 29, 2014 at 9:17 am

    Wow! Those are awesome costumes! Can’t wait to see what you do this year!
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  3. Freda Mans says

    October 29, 2014 at 3:43 pm

    So creative and awesome! Can’t wait to see what you guys come up with this year!
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  4. Gingermommy says

    October 30, 2015 at 5:22 pm

    I always look forward to seeing what you have in store for Halloween. So awesome!
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  5. paula schuck says

    November 1, 2015 at 11:10 am

    YOU ARE SO FABULOUS I can’t even stand it. Now I am all like what did she do this year. Such a tease!! I need to know.
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  6. Kathleen Bailey says

    November 1, 2015 at 11:32 am

    You’re so creative! Your family is just perfect for family costumes, you look great!
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  7. Randa @ TBK says

    November 2, 2015 at 7:25 am

    I look forward to your costumes every year. You guys do such an amazing job! The Orange Is The New Black I think is my favorite.
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  8. Jennifer (momvstheboys) says

    November 2, 2015 at 7:37 am

    these are so incredible! you do an amazing job of getting everyone suited up for Halloween, even the pups! I have no idea how you make those images look so good!
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  9. Preet says

    October 24, 2017 at 7:49 pm

    What a great and fun post. I love all the outfits and you have already given me the idea of what I will be wearing on the Halloween. Nice pictures.

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  10. Pooja kawatra says

    October 24, 2017 at 9:47 pm

    These are awesome and most of the time I do DIY kind of costumes. Looking forward to more this year.

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  11. Stephanie says

    October 25, 2017 at 2:52 am

    The Orange Is The New Black and Hollywood ones are absolutely brilliant1 I’m going as Zombie Kylie Jenner for Halloween x
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  12. Joanna says

    October 25, 2017 at 3:42 am

    These costumes are so creative! I would definitely go for the Orange is the New Black one because I am a fan of the series. I love how all of the options have an outfit for the furry members of the family.

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  13. Thena says

    October 25, 2017 at 4:37 am

    So adorable. Making Halloween a family affair is a ton of fun, I love it. I like the Mary Poppins one for sure. Great post!

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  14. Tiffany says

    October 25, 2017 at 4:47 am

    Hahah these are amazing! I especially love the Orange is the new black one! Too funny.

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  15. Nikki R. says

    October 25, 2017 at 6:32 am

    This are all so amazing and creative!! I can’t wait to see the 2017 one.

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  16. Jillian says

    October 25, 2017 at 6:34 am

    oh my gosh, these are hilarious! We have a dog instead of kids, but he is a big one so it is hard to find costumes in his size, but maybe child size costumes would be something to look into. never thought of that before!

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  17. Quirky Homemaker says

    October 25, 2017 at 7:40 am

    Your fam-o-ween photos are so cute! Yes, we used to dress as a family. Sadly, my kids have outgrown it! Can’t see what you cook up for this year!

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  18. Shubhada Bhide says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:58 am

    These dogs look so incredible. I really love their Halloween costumes. So creative. I am going to share this with my friend.

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  19. Nicole Flint says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:34 am

    I love the orange of the new black costume!!! I also love the dog costumes. I have 2 dogs and I love the dog costume ideas!

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  20. Beola Lawal says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:50 am

    Wow, these costumes are truly beautiful. You’ve really done well, I wish my hubby can agree to something like this, you all look awesome.

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  21. Agnes says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:07 pm

    Oh, these outfits are super cute! The dog ones are just cuteness to the max. I cant wait to see what people will wear this year.
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  22. Shraddha says

    October 28, 2017 at 10:57 am

    Haha some great outfits over the years!! Very innovative

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  23. Chandra says

    October 12, 2018 at 12:40 pm

    How fun! Love these Fam-o-ween images. Thanks so much for sharing!

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  24. Lindsay H says

    October 12, 2018 at 1:18 pm

    These Fam-o-ween costumes and photos are hilarious. You put so much effort and thought into them. They are all so creative and fun!

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  25. Daisy H says

    October 12, 2018 at 6:00 pm

    Happy Fam-o-ween! This is so awesome and hilarious! I’m a huge Beatles fan, so love that one the most!

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  26. Lindsay says

    October 12, 2018 at 6:06 pm

    These are the coolest family photos ever!! I love this idea!!! Talk about a fun family!!

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  27. sarah says

    October 13, 2018 at 7:25 am

    These are so stinking fun! Such great ideas!!! Fam-o-ween is on point this year!!!

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  28. Sarah says

    October 13, 2018 at 12:31 pm

    Such cute ideas for a “Fam-o-ween”! Love it!

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  29. Kelly says

    October 13, 2018 at 1:39 pm

    Haha you’re my hero! I love all of these and I hope you bust some of these photos out when she becomes a teenager

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  30. Corey says

    October 14, 2018 at 5:56 am

    All of these family costumes are amazing! You have done such a great job year after year! I can’t wait to see what you come up with for 2018!

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  31. Haley Tabares says

    October 18, 2019 at 2:20 pm

    I wish my dogs would let me dress them up but every year it is a #fail. Seriously you’re dogs are the cutest!

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  32. Brandy says

    October 18, 2019 at 2:38 pm

    What a fun blog post to read! I love your recap of Halloweens, these are adorable photos and memories to share. I cannot wait for Halloween in some ways, in other ways, I’m not ready!

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  33. Paula @ I'm Busy Being Awesome says

    October 18, 2019 at 2:39 pm

    These are such fun costume ideas, I love the Star Wars one!

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  34. Cassie says

    October 19, 2019 at 6:36 am

    These are such CUTE ideas! I love them!!

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  35. Peachy @ The Peach Kitchen says

    October 19, 2019 at 2:39 pm

    I love your family costumes!! Everything is cute!

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  36. Samantha Laycock says

    October 8, 2020 at 8:15 pm

    These are the best!!! I love them all. Super creative and fun.

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  37. Bri says

    October 8, 2020 at 8:30 pm

    😆 🤣 😂 These are too funny! LOVE IT!

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  38. Sarah Miller says

    October 9, 2020 at 5:41 am

    These costumes are so cute! I love the idea of coordinating family costumes.

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  39. Nadalie Bardo says

    October 9, 2020 at 5:58 am

    OMG this is beyond fun! Ya’ll take halloween so serious that I love it!

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  40. Monica Simpson says

    October 9, 2020 at 9:42 am

    These are all so creative! I love the Awwwdrey Hepburn and Marilyn Momroe ones and the cops and robbers. So cute!

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  41. Lourdes Gomez says

    October 9, 2020 at 10:08 am

    Yes! These are great ideas I think I saw what I’d like to do this year!

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  42. Natalie says

    October 9, 2020 at 1:45 pm

    WOw these costumes are fun and exciting. Great ideas for Halloween. I love the dog ones. So so cute!

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  43. Clair says

    October 9, 2020 at 4:20 pm

    These are the cutest family costumes EVER!!

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  44. Lynn Armstrong says

    October 9, 2020 at 6:19 pm

    The family themed costumes are spot on. I can’t wait to see a little family this year dressed up. The orange is the new black AH….mazing

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  45. Rosemary says

    October 10, 2020 at 11:23 am

    Such awesome costumes and so much creativity. Incredible. Looks like you are set for Halloween.

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  46. rachel says

    October 10, 2020 at 5:24 pm

    These are such fun ideas! I LOOOOVE family costumes!

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  47. Angeline says

    October 11, 2020 at 5:22 am

    I love this Lol! I would go for the ones with popular references! ❤️

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  48. Puja Kumari says

    October 11, 2020 at 12:10 pm

    Wow, these costumes are looking great and so creative. I appreciate your efforts for creating them.

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  49. Clarice says

    October 12, 2020 at 5:23 am

    Wow! These are so cute. What a fun idea and a great experience for the whole family. Peter Pan is my favorite. 🙂

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Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — Holiday burnout hits moms and caregivers hard — and the guilt of not being able to do it all as planned can be heavy. 

This year, after months and months of overstimulation, busy-ness, grief, worries, transitions, and may many many sleepless nights, we chose quiet. Simple. Unplanned. And a lot of it had to do with my own exhaustion and not being able to do all the things - like I used to in the past.

And in letting go, my kids not only enjoyed the simplicity, pressure-free, they loved the spontaneity, the lack of rushing from one thing to another, keeping old traditions while creating new memories. 

They even offered to be a part of the planning and the doing. 

It never had to be perfect. 
It never had to just fall on my shoulders. 
And it never was about a tree surrounded with every item on their wishlist. 

They just wanted me to play with them, wrap gifts with them, eat with them, and let them do some of the caregiving as well. 

Maybe that was the magic after all.
For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I s For the last 3 Christmas seasons, my girls and I switched things up.  We were finding we were already maxed out with our own households - the lists, the gifts, the prep, the mess. Omg… the mess.

It was time to take a break from@the stress, and to find joy through this busy season, while putting our “cute” on again. 

… and so, the birth of “Annual High Tea with the ladies” came to be: 

We ditched the gifts. 
Kept the girlfriends. 
Elevated the carbs.
… and the heels.

And yes - the tea just got a little sweeter.

Got a holiday ritual that fills your cup (literally or figuratively)?
Me: We’re getting too old for this. 

Also Me: 🎥📹🔦💡💄💋

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Check out our #Behindthescenes done in our living room. (Grateful for the space @ginandneature 🤣🤣)

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It’s been ✨14✨ YEARS of doing this as a family, I get asked every year how we pull this off. Esp with limited time, budget, and busy kids??

Easy: 
• Cue theme music (“Alexa, get us in #kpopdemonhunters mode”)
• Beat our faces down with a little @amoresarte_arteesamor  from our bestie Uncle @andrewvelazquez_ ‘s killer 💋 palette #onlythebest
• dust off my podcast studio lights, most likely incorrectly. (I am NO @remy.is.remy, @nikkye_music , @eric.thebald , @jakerfilms, @brianbobila, or @hoelune)
• clear my phone cuz it’s always full • throw on some DIY outfits we happen to have in our dress up trunk (OR Grammy’s closet!)
• grab last minute wigs (and in my case - clip on BANGS) that don’t exactly match the OG characters, but who cares… it’s our spin anyway…)
• George @gjavier5, our in-house Jinu, just got ready for the day as normal 😂😂😂😂😂😂
- Start bribing the kids AND George (but guess what - they LOVE our #familytradition too!! EVEN Jenny, my kiddo’s beloved (and often creepy doll who participates in most of our #FamilyHalloween themes. Gotta love Jenny!🪆

It’s 10000% chaotic, always a mess, but it’s how the Balinos do #Famoween (and Christmas… lazy greetings here we come), and we wouldn’t have it any other way. 

#BTS
The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. The BALINO FAM is ready for our Comeback of 2025. 

Just call us the “B POP Fam-O-Ween Hunters” 🎤

Plot twist of 2025? Our demons to fight — grief and loss, overwhelm, caregiving challenges, new school, intolerance, advocacy, no sleep, basically… life-ing. 

But guess what?

We didn’t break — we TRANSFORMED. (As my kids would say - we SLAYED 2025). 

We stopped trying to fit into places that weren’t made for us. Just like these characters on #KpopDemonHunters

• We are choosing to show up for one another and our parents. Fully.
• We are choosing our battles 
• We no longer apologize for simply being us. In all our messy, chaotic #neurospicy, busy, loud, glittery, imperfect ways. 

And when we let our special big little girl be exactly who SHE is — not who the world told her to be — everything shifted. For HER and for our ENTIRE family. 

Peace came. Joy came. She shined.
Heck - she even spearheaded this year’s #famoween theme with the help of her “Baby” bro. It’s been 14 years of finding her place in the world and facing heartache and struggle along the way. We had a BREAKTHROUGH this year.

But it started with working on us as a family. 

So here we are.

Tired.
Ready.
Golden.

✨The B POPS✨
• George as “G-NEW” (Jinu) - the brooding lead of Saja Boys🔥charming and charismatic but struggling on the inside ✅

• My girl as MIRA” - tough and spicy but sensitive on the inside ✅

• My Baby boy as “Baby” who relies on his cuteness to get things done ✅ 👀

• Me as “Zoey”, just a big kid trying to figure out where she belongs. Always learning. ✅ ✅✅✅

(Also… yes. The 5th main character, Rumi (my daughter’s beloved doll who often makes a cameo in our fam-o-ween posts. Can you spot her our lead? 👀💜)

Watch out world. We may be getting old, but we’re ✨ #Golden. ✨

Pls leave a comment👇🏻and let my creative fam (so lucky to have you, @gjavier5 and my crazy kiddos) know whatcha think of our theme this year!
👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃 Rainy day at @galey_ 👻👻👻🎃🎃🎃🎃

Rainy day at @galey_farms with the fam and it was exactly what we needed. So much fun, and great for a good scare cuz I’m just a big 🐓. 

And those donuts…. #nextlevel. As was that #cornmaze🌽 

Thanks @ingirlsclub for organizing a core memory for my girl and all the girls and their/our families! It’s hard to organize things with my little family while #caregiving, and often we have to decline, but we are so glad this worked out. This group activity made it so much more feasible for us. #sandwichgen #sandwichgenlife #elderlycare

#Halloween #fall #family #YYJ #pumpkins #pumpkinpatch #trainride #familyfun
11 years ago, we lost our little Lucy. 🤍 And f 11 years ago, we lost our little Lucy. 🤍 
And for 11 years since, I lost a little bit of me. 

“Lucy” means “light” — and somewhere along this long road of healing, I am really beginning to see it.

It’s no coincidence that the Lantern festival in our community fell on Lucy’s special weekend. We had no plans to go - but at the very last minute, something compelled us to check it out, and somehow we ended up walking through this magical, illuminated pathway wearing Jammies and slippers.

I don’t ask “why” anymore. 
I’m learning to accept.
And I’m leaning into #faith. 

On milestone moments like these, I hold my two earthside loves a little closer… and feel nothing short of immense #gratitude. And we know with so much certainty, these two, the first and the last of our 12 babes, our two earthside bookends… needed us the most. 

They are my “why”. 

All of them. 

Happy heavenly birthday our sweet “light giver”, Lucy.

#angelbaby #griefjourney #motherhoodjourney #healingafterloss #neurodivergence #setd1bsyndrome #SetD1BNDD #parentingafterloss #faith #multipleloss #sunshinebaby #rainbowbaby #secondtrimester #latepregnancyloss #pregnancylossawarenessmonth #October
#BTS with my lovely #surrosis @jenny_p1987. Have #BTS with my lovely #surrosis @jenny_p1987. 

Have you ever listened to a #podcast where 2 Mamas of Loss talk about how they mixed a little DNA together, and out came a baby? Yeah me neither… 

So be sure to watch this incredibly impactful and emotional episode where we have an honest conversation about #parentingafterloss with the very woman who changed the course of our family’s trajectory. No matter what the journey looks like to become parents, it’s not always #sunshineandrainbows but the intense #gratitude will always carry us through. 

Streaming on @telus @storyhive #OptikTV SPRING 2006! 

#eggdonation #eggdonor #ittakesavillage #rainbow #pregnancylossawareness  #pregnancylossawarenessmonth #rainbowbaby #miraclebaby 

Thnx for saving the day @eric.thebald with your invisible cape and wrangling powers! @jakerfilms  @hoelune @gjavier Couldn’t get through this all without you! 

@sassandsmalltalkpodcast
Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Jaime Pereira, Founder and brains behind Glow Jar Beauty @glowjar_  says “LESS IS MORE” with skincare.

Meanwhile, I’m over here… overscrubbing, overthinking, and sometimes… skipping it altogether. 🙈 (shhhh... don’t tell my husband, OR my friends, OR my followers, omg please don’t tell my mom).

Turns out, good #skincare isn’t about burning your face off with 12 products that smell like a tropical fruit basket. It’s about being gentle — even if you’re a chaotic face washer like me.

Watch me get called out (lovingly) in Episode 3 (https://youtu.be/gAg0RXoGiAg) of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast Talk, now streaming on ‪@TELUS‬ OptikTV and ‪@storyhive‬ 

Find the link on my BIO or in my stories. 

#SkincareHumor #MomLife #BurnoutRecovery #CaregiverLife #SassAndSmallTalk #lessismore #glowjarbeauty #glowjar #skin #glowingskin #JaimePereira #canadianbrand
When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your When you are too unequipped to plan ahead, so your village takes over and plans ahead for you. 

Enter, days worth of #waffles and #pancakes for your sweet-breakfast-obsessed family. All so I can focus on working on season 2 of my show @sassandsmalltalkpodcast @Telus @storyhive now in production, whilst #caregiving the parents full time and no summer camps for the kiddos in sight. Let’s just say 24 hours in a day isn’t quite enough… 😴 is kinda out the window too. 

Thank you @caarly.xo for knowing I’m in the season, and just doing what you do… as always. 

Now please go back to your family of 6 😲, because they are probably tired of sharing you with us after all these MONTHS… LOVE you, and THANK you for all you’ve done for our family. 

The waffles were just the delish icing on the cake. There was muuuuuuch much more you supported us with while across the country as we focused on family, and we are grateful to you…  thank you. 

#ittakesavillage #sassandsmalltalk #telus #storyhive
Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️ #caregiver #s Sigh. Tough crowd. 🤷🏻‍♀️
#caregiver #seekingvalidation #daughterofimmigrants #proudgrandparents

J/K… she was proud (I think). 
And she actually read it (I think)… 🤔🤔

Grab a copy @islandparent on local stands or check out the link on IG stories and in my BIO. 

And read the article @mommamillsblog, my girl, Natasha wrote on the true meaning of wealth in parenthood. 

Lots of gems!
#islandparentmagazine #parenting #homeschool #mentalhealth #mentalwellness 

Do you still find yourself seeking your #elderly parents approval even as a parent yourself?
Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉 When you’re a par Meet me in 10.” ☕💌😉

When you’re a parent, caregiver, and running your own show on zero sleep… “sneaking out” mid-day with that cutie (who kinda resembles your spouse 🤷🏻‍♀️ ) for YUUUUUMMMY local @drumroaster #specialitycoffee, is basically the best (and only) date you’ll get. 

And honestly? We’ll take it. ✨

Talk “latte” to me. 💛 

*Tho that Canadian Macchiato ☕️ was next level…* Jus’ sayin’

Catch the @aerobicgeisha.coffee #mobilecoffee #cartonwheels #PopUp 🚲 at @westshoretowncentre — now ‘til Sept 3 (closed Mondays). 

#SupportLocal #ParentDateVibes #BurnoutFuel #CoffeeDate #hubbahubba #coffeeismylovelanguage #westshoretowncentre #aerobicgeisha #geishacoffee #aerobicgeishacoffee
**He had NO idea what he got himself into when he **He had NO idea what he got himself into when he answered that phone call from the crazy big(ish) city girl.**⁣
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Yes… I made the first move.⁣
And yes… I called him on an actual telephone. With a rotary dial. Connected to a wall.⁣ ☎️⁣
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That was 26 years ago.⁣
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10 years later (16 years ago today), he asked me to meet him at the end of the aisle and make it official 🤵🏻👰🏻—which we did, surrounded by everyone we love, and then danced the night away at the bottom of the Seinfeld steps.⁣
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Thank you for doing life with me, George @gjavier5. You’ve always been (and always will be) my #1 go-to for all things Cobra Kai 🐍, the best fellow imperfect-perfect parent to those little humans who look suspiciously like you 👧🏻👦🏻—and of course, co-parent to our two stinky OG furry kids 🦮🐕‍🦺.⁣ Thanks for being the yin to my “extra”🤪. And I’m the yang to your “chill” 😎
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Now stop scrolling and go kill that spider in the living room… or I might have to tell the world who really watches The Bachelor between the two of us 👀🌹
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I love you!! (And no… this is not just a clever way to get you to finally agree that the TV we bought the year we got married is long overdue for retirement 📺🫠)⁣ 😉 
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D&G, finally.
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#16YearsMarried #26YearsTogether #dgfinally #atlast #happyanniversary
Meet Emily. She coped by staying busy. Corporate Meet Emily. 

She coped by staying busy.
Corporate life. 
#Sidehustles. 
Always moving.
Until #burnout stopped her cold.

When Emily Bowman  @emlambow @nevaehjade.beautywellness, at the tender age of 12, began the life of a heartbreaking reality of #caregiving for a loved one, and eventually losing her father after a decade long battle with cancer, she pushed through the pain the only way she knew how — by working harder. 

But #grief always finds a way to surface.

#Fitness became her lifeline.
Now it’s not just her outlet — it’s her saving grace... and her business.

So grateful for @Telus @storyhive  for the platform to share such profound stories on #burnout and reclaiming joy as parents. 

🔥 Watch the full conversation in Episode 2 – live now on #Youtube - Link in BIO and IG Stories! Watch now for amazing INSPO, and please subscribe and support a sis! 🙋🏻‍♀️ (PSSST… “YouTube.com/@sassandsmalls”)
✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out ✨Look, Mom — we’re in print!✨ (*Turns out “talks too much” is a transferable skill. 😉)

Couldn’t resist flipping through the online Summer issue of @islandparent (still chasing down a copy ON PRINT — OMW, #YYJ friends, pls save me one 🙏🙏!!)

Somehow, between #caregiving worries stretching from the West Coast to the Midwest, an unexpected emergency trip with the kids, and a 25-hour boat/train/plane journey (regrets: zero, snack supply: questionable 🙃), I managed to turn the chaos into a story — and landed my first article in one of our Van Island parenting mags.

Even better? I sat down for a feature interview about @sassandsmalltalkpodcast, sharing why these conversations matter, how the show makes space for parents stretched too thin, and why reclaiming joy beyond burnout is actually possible. #SeasonOne is now streaming on @telus @storyhive 🎙️.

A Massive THANK YOU to Stacie Gaetz @islandparent for an energizing interview that made me sound far cooler than I am, and to the whole editorial team for trusting me to bring my slightly unhinged, real-talk parenting chaos to your pages.

Here’s to finding joy in the mess, adventure in the unexpected, and a whole lotta #HappyJ in my carry-on…

📖 Grab a copy, flip to my pages, check out all the amazing contributing writers, and come hang out on the pod!

Also peep appearances from 2 of my 8 incredible guests: @truedad.community, @sarjo08, @toastibeautycollection — and the ridiculously talented @sarah_booth_photography, whose cover shot steals the show.

Non-islanders - the online copy is avail at islandparent.ca. Link on my bio 😉

#SassAndSmallTalk #SandwichGeneration #IslandParent #Storyhive #TelusOriginals #CaregiverLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FilipinoMoms #RealTalkForParents #ChaosAndJoy #ContributingWriter #Storytelling
I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to I recorded this moments before we said goodbye to our father-in-law — who we’d been caregiving for these last couple months in their home on the other side of the country 💔 It’s been a heavy time, so I haven’t been online. 

But I wanted to quickly share that George and I have been keeping up with our daily dose of #HJ, and between that, and prayer, our amazing village both here and at home, and the support of family - our #stressresilience to handle the most challenging time in our lives was nothing short of a miracle. 

Running on virtually no sleep, the constant worry, lack of control, we needed all we could get to show up for the ones we love especially these last couple months. 

I am now a couple weeks into the #Rootist Densify Hair Line (and only a few days since recording this vid), after just a few washes with the Rootist Densify Shampoo + Conditioner (plus the Densifying Serum), I’m already feeling a shift. ✨ Thicker, fuller hair is the goal — and even in the midst of #grief and #caregiving, it’s nice to feel one small thing going right.

If you’re curious, today’s the day to grab it (July 2nd, 2025) —
🛍️ Shampoo + Conditioner are on sale
🇨🇦 Canada Day = FREE shipping Until July 4th 2025
But the 25% off on shampoo and conditioner ends TONIGHT (July 2nd - 1159pm PST) — so don’t wait! 🌿💚

Grab your Shampoo and Conditioner here: 
https://www.amare.com/et/sh43va/1946022

Promo code: Rootist25

DM me, or click the link for the full video on my profile.

#RootistHairCare #ScalpHealth #CaregiverLife #MicrobiomeSupport #CanadaDaySale #Review
S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is S E A S O N * 1 :: #Burnout is real — but so is your comeback. 💥 SEASON 1 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast is now #bingeable on @TELUS #OptikTV & @StoryHive #YouTube! 8 back-to-back episodes of real talk about #parenting, #caregiving, and life’s beautiful chaos. Hit that link in bio and #getthatsassback. 🎙️✨ #JoyUnlocked #ParenthoodUnfiltered
M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday M I N I • V I L L A G E :: This little birthday boy of mine has been such a trooper — the youngest and smallest member of our #sandwichgeneration family. For the third time in his 7 years of birthdays, his special day was quietly placed on hold as we navigated some heavy family matters. 

That meant: 
• no class party
• no birthday play date
• no jumping on trampolines
• no big plan, not even a little one 

… and not one single complaint from this compassionate little guy.

He’s simply grateful to be where he’s needed most — with family. 

To his (and our) surprise, his incredible teacher sent us this beautiful video of his classmates from far away, singing him #HappyBirthday, and the emotion it stirred in our family was something we’ll never forget. It was the very medicine our hearts needed right about now.

I may or may not have shed a tear or two… thousand.

And as for the #birthdayboy?

Well — it’s written all over his sweet face.

#thegiftthatkeepsongiving #itsthelittlethings #ittakesavillage #caregiving #bestgiftever #lovewins #realparentingmoments #sandwichgenerationlife
G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a G E T * T O * T H E * R O O T :: I recorded this a little while ago… but life had other plans. 💔

It’s been a challenging month — on top of caregiving, moving homes, and homeschooling, we’ve been navigating some heavy family stuff. So I stepped back to focus on what matters most. 💗

That said… I’m slowly finding my way back.

And while it might seem small, leaning into this lighthearted moment — unboxing the full #Rootist kit, the #HJ for scalp — feels like a tiny act of #respite I really need right now. 

I’ve been working on my #guthealth with #Amare, and now I’m turning my attention to my #scalp #microbiome — because healing starts from the inside out… but the outside could use a little love too. 💆🏻‍♀️✨

Here’s to strong, luscious hair (maybe even retiring the ol’ #mombun? We’ll see 😅) and giving myself a moment to feel good again. 💚
#ScalpMicrobiome #GutBrainaxis #MomLifeRecovery #momlifebelike
🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥 We’re closing out 🔥 SEASON FINALE DROP 🔥

We’re closing out Season 1 of “Sass & Small Talk” with serious depth, healing, and one heck of a magical mic-drop moment. ✨

In this powerful finale #onthepod, I sit down with @scarletjaxen — a Victoria-based #author, counsellor, and storyteller with years of experience in clinical social work. She brings together sharp intellect and soul-deep wisdom to help us explore #burnout and intuition, through the power of #multisensory storytelling.

Scarlet believes change is possible, healing is available, and that WHO we ARE can evolve—when we’re ready to take the risk to live with intention, while trusting our own instincts.

She takes #trustyourgut to a whole new level.

For every #caregiver, #mama, and recovering #overachiever... this one’s for you.

🎥 NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+

📅 Coming May 27 to @storyhive + @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube + all podcast platforms.

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #womensempowerment
B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds be B O S S * L A D Y * B U R N O U T :: She builds beauty brands by day and dominates video games by night 🎮💅 

Meet Sara Jonsson @sarjo08 #mama (human & furry), #wifey, #caregiver, #entrepreneur, and low-key savage when gaming with her son 😂. 

As the go-to support for her parents through some tough health-related seasons, Sara’s #familyfirst mindset fuels everything she does—including the business she built from love. 

In Episode 7, we get real about #caregiverburnout, while running multi businesses with heart, and finding joy in the chaos. 

…and,

HOW. THE. HECK. SHE. DOES. IT. ALL. 

NOW streaming on @TELUS OptikTV Stream+ 

Will be available on @storyhive and @sassandsmalltalkpodcast #YouTube and all podcast platforms on May 27th. 

#watchlocal #YYJ #Victoria #storyhive #behindthescenes #onthepod #VancouverIsland #Telus #OptikTV #videopodcast #bossladyvibes @toastibeautycollection
SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes gli SOMETHING * IS * BREWING :: A #behindthescenes glimpse of what feels like the beginning of a powerful shift in #womenshealth right here in #Victoria.

To stand alongside such empowered women — #caregivers, #changemakers, survivors, women from all walks of life — in the very place where the hands and hearts of this hospital held me and my family together (in more ways than one)… it was overwhelming in the best way.

Even more so, to share it with my daughter, my fiercest little survivor. Both of our stories of survival are woven into these hospital walls.

This was more than just a shoot. This was change taking place in real time. Honoured to be a tiny part of this moment as it unfolds.

Thank you for bringing this to life @ourvichospitals @averybrohman @gaellevanerp 💛
✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.co ✨UPDATE!! We found our mystery fam! ✨@chris.cochrane.realtor, you and your kiddos are what our world needs more of! And grateful to our dear friend @oliviabozovic who made the connection! SMALL 🌍 BIG 🩷♥️💙! Adore you both!! 

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To the kind dad at the @royalbaycolwood Easter Egg Hunt this past Saturday—

You probably didn’t realize how much you and your kids impacted our day.

My son had just missed the first few minutes of the egg hunt (as usual, this mama was running late with a million things on her plate—homeschooling, caregiving, promoting a show, working from home, managing the home, advocating, feeding the young and old, managing moods... the usual chaos).

He stood in line for the balloon dome and said quietly, trying , “I got zero eggs, mama.”

You heard him. Your son, who seemed a bit overwhelmed himself covering his ears from all the noise, and your little girl, reached into their own baskets and filled my son’s bag.

I watched as kindness bloomed in real time.

You didn’t just hand out chocolate—you gave my son the gift of feeling seen and included. You taught your kids what generosity really looks like.

And for this tired, always-late, sandwich-gen special-needs mom—your gesture meant more than you’ll ever know.

If anyone in the Westshore community knows this lovely family (dad of Grayson?), please tag them or send them our thanks.

This is what #community looks like. 🐣💛

#SandwichGeneration #GlassChild #NeurodivergentMom #MomGuilt #CommunityLove #WestshoreBC #VictoriaMoms #RoyalBayColwood #RealEasterMagic #SmallKindnessBigImpact
She podcasts. She parents. She’s got a 🌶️ She podcasts. 
She parents. 
She’s got a 🌶️ 🧠.
She’s fresh outta burnout mode.
She sips #HappyJ.
And now, with🎙️in hand… she’s streaming on @TELUS @STORYHIVE (because even #actionfigures need a l’il 📺 airtime).

Hey, I’m Deb B., host of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast — a podcast turned video series where we get real about #parenting and #caregiver #burnout, and find joy in the messy middle.

Fueled by my go-to fix-the-gut-fix-the-burnout potion🥤, a l’il bit of tears, and a whole lotta sass, this season brings on the reality of living in the #burnout generation, with guests who will leave you asking yourself “where have they been all my life?”

Because we are DONE glorifying busy.
We’re saying YES to rest.
And HEEEECK YES to finding our joy once again. #INeedMySassBack

Catch the Pod Edition now on TELUS OptikTV Ch 9, Stream+, and on #Storyhive YouTube (Search Storyhive Sass Small Talk) Link on my bio for Episodes 1 & 2.

🦉 Sexy Studio. ✔️ I 👀 @haus.of.owl 
🛋️ Cozy couch. ✔️
🎙️ Good convo. ✔️
🥹 Big feelings. ✔️
🤩 And even bigger lashes. ✔️✔️✔️

LET’S TALK. 

Oh and PS - wanna know how to get your action figure #animated? Follow me, write “SASS”, and let me know what your action figure would be in the comments below and I’ll hook you up. 

#SassAndSmalls #TelusStoryhive #HappyJEnergy #GoodbyeBurnout #SmallTalkBigFeels #actionfigure #barbie #AI #Amare #happyblend #cortisol
When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑 In When life gives you burnout… do squats. 🍑

In Episode 2 of @sassandsmalltalkpodcast “Reclaiming Joy of #Parenthood Beyond Burnout”, I take on the ultimate #challenge:
Fitting fitness into my already chaotic #caregiving, #homeschooling, always behind the wheel, #neurodivergent navigating, mom-life schedule. 🧠🎢💪

Add to the mix, a busy 🧠 that thrives on chaos and fun? Why not #gamify? Moms- let’s do the #TriggerWordChallenge!! Every time your kids say (aka “demand”, I mean c’mon now…) “MOM!”, do a squat! In the kitchen, while cleaning, cooking, folding laundry. Just don’t do it driving! #safetyfirst

For this episode, Every time *I* said the word “lash” — yep, I squat. 😅

Joining me is none other than Victoria’s go-to #LashLady, who most would call a client-proclaimed “lash-a-pist” and certified #fitness coach, Emily Bowman @nevaehjade.beautywellness, who’s here to talk #burnout, #beauty, and #body movement. And I’m here to try and master the world’s most chaotic squat routine. 🙃

Side note: Psssst… your girl hasn’t done a squat since before the Pandy of 2020 so this may be nbd to the average person, but it’s quite literally a miracle ⛪️ for 🙋🏻‍♀️. #whateverworks #amIright?

Catch more laughter, squats, Yoga-envy 🧘🏻‍♀️, words of wisdom, and a tear or two…  on the full episode 🎙️NOW STREAMING on a 📺 near you. @Telus OptikTV (search “Storyhive Sass” on Demand), Ch. 9, Stream+ app, @storyhive YouTube

Comment “Squat” if you want the full episode link on @storyhive‘s YouTube. But it’s even more fun on TV, so try that first! We sure are…

#SassAndSmallTalk #SquatGoals #BurnoutAndBootyGains #bunsofsteel #LashLadyTakesOver #NeurodivergentMomLife #CaregiverFitness #SquatWhileYouCan #HomeschoolChaos #MomLifeUnfiltered #VictoriaBC #StoryHive #ReclaimYourJoy #JLoGotNothingOnMe
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